Thomas "Tom" Milton Gray, 89, of Columbus, Montana died January 15, 2026. Tom had many loves-Pepsi, sports, Facebook (which often landed him in Facebook Jail), his faith, and deeply, his children and grandchildren. His greatest love, however, was his wife of 32 years, Pat, lovingly known as "Patsy". Together, Tom and Pat built a beautiful blended life. When Tom married Pat, he also received the gift of her family, whom he loved unconditionally as his own.
Tom's wicked sense of humor brought smiles to everyone he encountered, and his loving heart offered comfort and peace to all who were fortunate enough to call him a friend.
Preceding Tom in death are his parents,William and Elsie Gray and his daughter Karla Jo, who passed in 2025.
Along with his wife Pat, Tom is survived by his son Allen; bonus daughters Theresa (Rocky), Lisa (Mark) and Linda; his many grandchildren and great-grandchildren and numerous nieces and nephews.
Tom will be deeply missed by all who were privileged to know and love him. He leaves behind many good and perfect memories.
Our hearts break and breathe at the same time as we remember our beloved husband, father, grandfather and friend, Thomas Milton Gray